notes from a wineaholic/eggnog

the wineaholic is particularly rummy during the holidays for reasons obvious to most; and yes there is a holiday drink with which to pahty, pahty. my aunt's eggnog recipe is the real deal, baby. a no holds barred, send you over the christmas tree, sugar high infused with rum to knock you right out of your holiday stockings. did i say rum "infused"? well, i don't know if that's really the right term considering that its a potent potable one third of which is rum. i'm off tonite to the first of the holiday family get-togethers, and i wouldn't be properly armed (i mean festive, yeah, that's it, festive) if i wasn't packing a bottle of "the nog". we're talking loaded for bear baby, as my sister in in-law kim will tell you while she chugs it (i mean sips it, yeah that's it, sips it) on the day after christmas morning all by herself in her kitchen. this year there is not only christmas eve at my family's, and christmas day at kim and jimmy's, there will also be a post-christmas family melt-down (i mean gathering, yeah that's it, gathering) at karen and wayne's. it's all good, really. and it is after all another occasion for food and drink.
here's the recipe:
one can of sweetened condensed milk,
one can of evaporated milk,
one raw egg (that's right raw, be a man!)
one sweetened condensed milk can full of rum (because it is the bigger can of the two cans)
one cup of sugar

combine the first four ingredients in a blender and mix. put the sugar in a non-stick pan on high heat and caramelize. the heat should be on high in the beginning but be careful once it starts to caramelize that you don't burn the sugar. it will smoke some so turn off the alarms. with the blender running add the caramelized sugar in to the other ingredients and blend. enjoy!!

panna cotta

when it comes to mealtime i do not usually care so much for the desserts as much as i enjoy the entrees. today, however, i am opening this post about my dinner at alfredo of rome with praise for their panna cotta. literally it means "cooked cream" but that is a misnomer because it is not actually cooked at all. it is a combination of milk, cream, and sugar then mixed with gelatin to set it. most other cream desserts involve eggs, usually cooked over a double boiler, and are more difficult to make because you need to worry about overcooking or undercooking. it is widely accepted that this dessert originated in the piedmont region of italy where it might once have been very simply consumed as a cream mixed with fruits and maybe nuts. just when the addition of the sugar came in, which would have been very expensive and difficult to find, is not exactly known; and some sources say that the gelatin added to make it set may have come from some very unsavory sources, including boiled fish bones. while there are savory as well as sweet versions of panna cotta, somehow the idea of fish panna cotta seems particularly unpleasant to me. at alfredo the panna cotta came in a very traditional berry sauce and it was the perfect ending to a heavy meal of their signature dish, what else? the fettuccine alfredo. that and the grapa of course (this is after all, about food AND drink!) alfredo has a very tony spot off the corner of fifth avenue and 49th street, and has a perfect view of the rockefeller center plaza with all the holiday trimmings. the service was excellent, our waiter jovial and expert, offering to fillet john's branzino (silver sea bass), and, as i mentioned, plying us with grapa. i'm always impressed with comfortable seating, and while there was just a little too much holiday music for my taste, they did manage to play one of my favorites which i offer to you here,
BUONO APPETITO

and yes!!! santa if you can leave johnny for me too i promise to be ohhhh soooo good (wink, wink)
although this is my absolute favorite christmas song and it is NEVER really the holidays until i hear the waitresses sing CHRISTMAS WRAPPING

a bitter pill and yummy chaser

nhaok so the bitter pill is jury duty. i don't want to hear from all you civically minded soft-heads out there about my responsibility. when i start getting full representation under the law i'll maybe be a little bit more open to sitting in judgement of another human being (MAYBE). considering that when this country was fighting for its independence one of the things that set off that whole party was the fact that americans were not getting representation in parliament across the great pond while still being taxed out the wazzoo, this country has not come along way in the last couple of hundred years or so. maybe i should start a revolution, i'm pretty close to it you can believe me. "no taxation without representation!!!!!", it was a good battle cry then and it is now. the yummy chaser is the opportunity to have lunch at nha trang while in the five points area of nyc. btw, it is one of the most rich historically in the entire city, and very well worth reading about. anyway, back to the food. if you love vietnamese food, and i do, and you love a bargain, and who doesn't?, nha trang is the place. even if you're not complying with your civic duty (fuck that shit), make the trip to 87 baxter street, share a table with someone if you're dining alone, indulge in the delicious spring or summer rolls, the bbq pork chops and the variety of fresh soups.
A LITTLE DINNER MUSIC FOR YOU

stella del mare

if you missed this terrific find in the murray hill section of manhattan, you'll not have another opportunity. after 30 or so years, this seafood-oriented northern italian with its "old-world feel" and "high qualify" fare is closing its doors. its location made it a treasure for the lunchtime business crowd; but that and the locals could not sustain this out-of-the-way favorite during the toughest of times. the last time i was there i was treated to a "run of the house" dinner courstesy of john's affiliation as a concierge. obviously, the fact that it was free made the food even more delicious :^D but even if you had to pay for it it would have been well worth the price. my favorites were the mussels in white wine sauce and the soft shelled crabs.
restaurants are a difficult business to keep up even in the best of times, its unfortunate that such a long lived one, with such a great, and well deserved, reputation could not survive. as it has been said, "location, location, location" and unfortunately this restaurant's address was too out of the way for the tourist crowd which is only interested in whatever is near the theater district, or whatever is the newest fad.
stella del mare will be sorely missed.